Each of us have a responsibility to grow our relationship with ourself.

To become strong, stable, trustworthy, nurturing and know that we belong.
To experience all senses, feelings and mysteries of life.
To be full with gratitude, while being with our sadness and pain.

To be balance.
To learn how to nurture, guide and be guided.

We cannot escape our need for genuine relationship with our whole self.
Many people try.
By filling their calendars, minds and lives with things outside of them.
Maybe a spouse, job, pets, power, money, alcohol, food, drug, gambling, porn, career, charity work or digital surfing.
This is the perfect storm for psychopathy, codependency, depression and further wounding to their already broken heart.